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Dogs and Kids: Aw, are you kissing the puppy?

Gabe kissing Dessa’s back

 

This morning was one of those sweet, endearing moments that you have with children and dogs. My 21 month old son was playing and my two whippets were hanging out near him. Completely unprompted he walked over to the youngest whippet Dessa, grabbed her muzzle and gently kissed her on the nose. My husband and I melted, it was the sweetest most adorable thing – completely unprompted. We said “Aw, did you kiss the puppy?” and he grinned with delight, clapped his hands and walked towards the other dog. My older whippet Lemmy is good, but not comfortable around my son at all. As I held Lemmy’s muzzle lightly so my son could ever so gently kiss his nose the alarm bells started ringing in my head. “What the heck am I doing? What if he tries to kiss a dog he doesn’t know? What if it’s the neighbor’s dog, or a friend’s dog – or a strange dog?” Without making a fuss I gently directed his next kiss to Lemmy’s back, midway down his body. I quickly relayed to my husband – “Don’t let him kiss Dessa’s face. Make sure you show him where to kiss her on the back.” He ran back and forth between the dogs with a huge smile “kissing” both dogs on the back.

Why did a ruin a lovely Kodak moment? I could have grabbed my camera and got absolutely adorable pictures of him kissing them on the nose. Thankfully I realized right away that it was a bad move – just like dogs, kids will repeat any behavior that elicits a positive reaction from you. Us cooing over him “kissing the puppies” would definitely make him repeat the behavior. In the same vein if I would have freaked out and said “WE DON’T KISS PUPPIES EVER!!” I could guarantee that he’d spend the next few days trying to kiss those dogs faces every chance he got. I hope that by redirecting him to a slightly safer behavior that if we don’t call attention to it he’ll forget about it. I figured kissing their back in the middle of their body vs. directly approaching and grabbing their faces was a safer alternative. The last thing in the world I want him to do is approach a dog directly from the front, grab it’s muzzle and put his face in contact with their nose.

I might have to be careful about kissing the puppies too, which I do all the time. Monkey see monkey do!

Dogs and Kids: Don’t Forget Your Magic Treats

Stroller

When I take the dogs for a walk I’m also taking a gigantic jogging stroller and 30+ lbs of kid so I need to dogs to walk politely. No pulling, no stopping to sniff, no meandering around and tangling the leashes in the wheels. No lunging at other dogs or squirrels (although we do make exceptions for the occasional stupid Southern squirrels who sit 2 ft away). You can see the cup holder on the left is full of Charley Bear treats. These are my Magic Dog Treats. They are used as good dog treats, stupid squirrel treats, interesting jogger treats, scary trash truck treats – getting the picture? Any time we see something super interesting or scary they get treats popped in their mouth constantly. Whenever they make a good decision, like not pulling my arm out of the socket, they also get a treat. What this does is train them when they see something new they should look at me. It only took a few days of repetition for this to work. The first time we saw a huge flock of geese at the pond Dessa looked at them with her eyes bugging out, then looked up at me and sat. I gave her a ton of treats and praise. One morning the trash truck rolled by and stopped right in front of us. We backed up a few feet until the dogs would take treats, and I stuffed them full of treats until the truck drove on. Now they don’t mind the truck. There are so many applications for magic treats – they work for obnoxious barking dogs, bicyclists, golf carts, dead squirrels in the road, etc. I try to never leave the house without a full supply of my Magic treats!

Dogs and Kids Photos – The Good, Bad and the Ugly

Recently I witnessed a nasty exchange on Facebook in regards to a member’s picture of her baby and dog. The baby was sitting on the dog’s chest and holding his muzzle. The comments degenerated into accusations of abuse, which was way over the top and didn’t accomplish anything. The photo did make me uncomfortable, but not because I had any worries that the baby or dog were being abused or not carefully supervised. It made me worry because it was teaching the baby a wrong way to interact with dogs. Kids tend to repeat behaviors that they find enjoyable or that get a reaction from adults and this wasn’t a safe behavior. Here are some tips for snapping photos of kids and dogs.

Is this acceptable for any dog or just my dog? If you’d only let your child do this to your dog and not your friends, neighbors or mothers dog then it’s probably not a good idea. Little kids don’t understand “We can only do this with your doggie but if you do it to another doggie you might get hurt.” The same idea goes for “I’m only going to do this once to get a cute shot.” If it’s not something you want your child to repeat, don’t do it!

Does my dog have a physical and social escape route? Your dog should be able to leave the interaction at any time. That means they can get up and not be chased or grabbed. That also means that they don’t feel social pressure from you to stay in an uncomfortable situation. This was something that took me time to realize with my own dog. He was desperately and subtly signaling me that he was not happy but my praising him lavishly or giving treats to sit next to the kid for a quick photo made him feel unable to leave. Which leads me directly to my next tip.

Is your dog showing calming signals? These are subtle signs that your dog is uncomfortable, but once you know what to look for they are unmistakable. Lip licking, yawning, moving slowly, turning the head or body, whale eye and sniffing the ground are all dog appeasement techniques. Sometimes they are so subtle that I don’t see them until later when I’m reviewing the photographs.

Now in the interest of education I am going to share some of my “Good, Bad and Ugly” photos. Well, maybe not ugly, since my son and dogs are just about the cutest on the planet in my completely unbiased opinion. I’d love to hear opinions on these photos, it could be that I’m reading my dogs wrong. These are in chronological order.


1) Good!
Why this photo is good:
Dog is relaxed on his bed and not being coaxed or cajoled in to the photo. He can get up and leave at any time. His facial expression and ear set shows relaxed interest.


2) Bad!
Why this photo is bad: The dog is being good, but he’s very nervous. I coaxed him up on the sofa with treats so I could get a picture of them together and he tried to jump down several times. Bad Mom! You can tell by his expression and ear set that he is very nervous and unsure of himself. Of course it makes an adorable photo, but it’s an unfair position to put the dog in. I chalk this one up to being a brand new Mom and being on no sleep.


3) Bad!
Why this photo is bad: Again with forcing the dog into a stressful situation so I could get a cute pic of the two of them. I lured him up there and he’s desperately saying “HELP” in dog body language. Note the panting, body and head turned away from the baby, ears pinned back, whale eye and awkward sitting position.


4) Bad!
Why this photo is bad: Apparently I have a thing for forcing my dog to sit on the sofa with the kid. Note the whale eye, turning of the head, and leaning away from him. He’s 5 months old here, it took me a while to learn!


5) Good!
Why this photo is good: This is not a staged picture. The dog laid down on the soft baby blanket next to the kid. His expression is alert and interested and he can get up and leave at any time.


6) Good!
Why this photo is good: Not staged, dog enjoying being fed from the high chair. Very interested, alert expression on dogs face. Alert and excited body posture, no signs of stress.


7) Good!
Why this photo is good: Dog is relaxed and interested in playing with the ball. The dog approached the kid on his own and sat down with him.


8) Good and Bad
Why this photo is both: The kid came and laid down with both dogs on the bed. Although the dogs are fairly relaxed and not bothered by it, this is not behavior I would allow with any dogs other than mine.


9) Good!
Why this photo is good: The puppy came and sat down with the kid and can leave at any time. She is alert and interested in the food he’s eating but not grabbing it.


10) Good and Bad
On our last picture, you can see this is an unposed picture of all three of them playing in the pool. The dogs are wrestling and the kid is having a blast. The bad part is that the dogs are getting crazy and wrestling next to the pool, which could be dangerous for the kid. He did get knocked over in the water once but thought it was funny and I scooped him right up. They get so focused on their play that they don’t even see him, which can create a very dangerous situation with dogs that move 35mph.

You can see as time went on I got better at recognizing stress in my dog and stopped the posed or forced photos. I also made sure my son knows not to flop on the dog beds, crawl in crates with the dogs or do anything else that he can’t do with other dogs. It’s a constant learning journey filled with mistakes (I had TONS of bad photos to pick from!) but we just keep learning and doing the best we can.

Dessa is here!

Welcome to Dessa, formerly Maple Syrup of the Pancakes litter. She is settling in well. Gabe adores her and Lemmy is coming around.

 

Maple will be here in 11 days

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Our beautiful girl from WildAbout Whippets will be here soon. She will get started on the oval track down here and be a buddy for Lemmy. I am so … Click here to read more.

Coming soon…

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Happy Holidays!

Gabe and Lemmy are ready for Christmas

 

Happy holidays from us to you!

News and Updates

Well unfortunately Mo didn’t work out, not through any fault of his own. We have a very non-dog savvy cat who does things like running 90mph to try and get the dogs to chase him. Poor Mo wasn’t sure what to think of it, but in order to keep the cat from getting squished or eaten we decided not to … Click here to read more.

SOMOS Derby Match 2012

We had a great time at the SOMOS Derby here in Jacksonville. Lemmy participated in the Match, taking second in Open.

Lemmy:

SOMOS NOTRA 11/19

Lemmy did great in his second meet, coming in 2nd, 2nd and 4th in his 3 races. He bounces all the way to the box, he loves it and runs with everything he’s got. Tony Crafts got some wonderful pictures of him.